October 25, 2011

Seven Ways in Seven Days to Have the Best Halloween Week Ever!!!

If you aren't in the Halloween spirit yet then what are you waiting for? And another thing, please don't misconstrue our meaning of "Halloween spirit" as something evil. Some people can take the fun out of the season by labeling people who allow their children to go trick-or-treating as devil worshippers when most normal people don't even care to think of it that way. We're talking about the one holiday where you can dress up in silly costumes, eat sweets without feeling guilty, and go pay for someone to scare you.

October is my favorite month of the year because there is so much going on that it is simply fun. Don't you think that all adults should try to have more fun? It definitely relieves stress. Below you will find seven ways to have the best Halloween week ever. Even if you don't try all of them, do something to help yourself smile this week. 

Who cares if you didn't take an art class in school? What other time of year would you carve a pumpkin? Exactly!  Invite your favorite little person (aka kid/niece/nephew/etc.) to help you and get started. Pick a wide area, grab some newspapers, a scooper, trash bags, and other materials you may need. Just make sure you have a few hours to spare to carve, clean up the mess, and get cleaned up afterwards. You'll be surprised in how totally time consumingly awesome it can be.

This may be a little far fetched for some people but if you have small children, decorating is a must. Even if you can't, try to at least pick up a pumpkin and sit it out on the porch. Stores everywhere will be getting rid of everything the closer it gets to Halloween, so hurry and get to the stores and see if you can find a great deal. Not sure where to start? Use this link to get some Halloween spirit ideas.

One of the best parts about Halloween is having a reason to dress up. Find the nearest Spirit store and pick out a cool costume. If you don't feel like making a purchase then go through your closest and get creative. You'd be surprised what a little bit of make-up, paint, poster board and markers can do. Really. Just remember that this is the one time of year that no one can truly judge you, so wear whatever the heck you want to.

#4   BAKE
Enjoying Halloween treats is a great way to kick off the holiday season. I can remember going trick-or-treating as a child and knowing that I could finally splurge on all the candy my parents would allow me to eat. Then, I would get to eat all the baked goods from the school carnival and class parties. "Oh how fun!" You can't beat childhood. I'm just glad that my metabolism still works. With all the parties going around, trust that you will be able to show off your baking skills to anyone willing to indulge. This website has a few recipes including the chocolate orange cake above. "Yummy!" Go for it.

You absolutely can't go through the month of October without attending a party somewhere. Whether it's your church group, a family member, or a friend of a friend's get together; put on your new creative costume and strut your stuff into somebody's costume party. Just make sure you bring a bottle or something edible to contribute. However if you can't find a party to crash, then throw one yourself. Load up your iPod with some of the latest hits and get on Facebook and blast the news to all of your friends. If you don't do anything on this list, this is by far a must. If not, then you dear reader may be considered anti-social and probably a bore to be around. Not good. 

I absolutely looooovvvveeee scary movies. I will watch them anytime of year. Halloween totally gives you one more excuse to invite friends over for a fright movie night or to simply get a little closer to the one you love. Maybe they scare you or they don't but if you're looking for a movie to really get under your skin I have a recommendation. Watch The Orphan. I am the biggest fan of horror movies but this one in particular scared the crap out of me. It wasn't so much the movie itself but more so the twisted secret revealed at the end. It seriously freaked me out and to this day I still refuse to watch it by myself. You can watch the trailer here

Visiting Netherworld in Atlanta on a Haunted House Crawl
My absolute favorite Halloween tradition is to walk through a haunted house. Growing up in the state of Georgia Halloween meant all of the above and getting to experience some of the scariest haunted houses around. With endless backwoods, old plantations and the love of chainsaw scares, I can't get enough. Amongst my friends and associates they all know I'm the haunted house connoisseur. So when they're looking for a good place to get scared they call me. It is not uncommon for me to visit a haunted house every weekend in the month of October. Call me crazy but its the only month to see great acting and production design at its best. 

It is such a huge industry in our state that the houses are getting even longer and extra competitive to see which house can scare the best. If you've never visited a haunted house before I highly advise you to gather a group of friends (who love to laugh) and make them come with you. Trust me that you don't want to go at it alone like the reporter Ellen featured. Paying to be scared is more about the experience of getting to laugh at yourself and your friends, especially after you realize how ridiculous you probably looked running through the attraction. If you are in the Atlanta area I suggest the following haunted houses. Click the images for more information. 

Now known as 13 Acres of Hell
Where you'll run for your life
The only adults only horror attraction in Atlanta.  There is even a bar to help numb the pain.

Happy Halloween!!!!

April 7, 2011

April 5, 2011

Reviving a Broken Heart

Lance Cpl. Raymon L.A. Johnson

As you can see, the Exclusive Remedies Studio news blog has not been updated recently. I apologize if you have been trying to keep up with our latest endeavors but I assure you that it was intentional. Due to a series of events that have occurred in my personal life, for the past few months I did not feel that there has been any good news to share. As the author of this blog and co-owner of Exclusive Remedies Studio, I feel inclined to share my personal story of illness, loss and sacrafice. Before I share this story I would ask that you would not prejudge the main topic discussed. Everyone has their own opinion towards war, but I am sure deep down inside we all wish conflicts between nations did not occur.

I remember that beautiful day on October 13, 2010 like it was yesterday. I travel quite frequently so if I am not in my office making calls, I'm running errands, filming, or meeting with prospective and current clients. Well, this day I just happened to be taking some "me time" and starting my day a little later. My father's sister (Jean) had been battling breast cancer for nearly two years. Though she had a successful mastectomy before, the cancer had now spread to her brain causing a brain tumor. She had the tumor removed back in February 2010 but there it was eight months later and it had grown back. She was now preparing to go into her second procedure. The doctors forewarned us that if they removed it again and the tumor comes back, there would be nothing else they could do for her. 

It was 1:21pm and my father was calling. He asked me if I was sitting down. I knew instantly that something was wrong. It was either my aunt Gwen (my mom's twin sister) who had surgery just two days prior, or my aunt Jean. I took a deep breath and heard him breakdown into tears as he said, "Raymon was killed today."

"WHAT? Raymon? No no no no no no no please tell me you're lying. Not Raymon. He just left for Afghanistan a few weeks ago. He just got there!" I cried. We were both crying hysterically. Not my baby cousin. Oh my gosh - my poor aunt Gwen and uncle Greg - and Ramon! (his twin brother) I thought. Aunt Gwen just had surgery, how is she supposed to heal properly under this kind of stress? Raymon was a good young man who loved his family. He wasn't involved in illegal drugs and had just turned twenty-two in August. Reality slapped me in the face; this moment was real.

I come from a military family. Raymon's twin brother (Ramon) is in the National Guard. His father served in the Army,  along with my uncle who retired Lt. Colonel, and my cousin Wendy who is currently a Captain. My father served as a Captain in the Marine Corps. Raymon had always wanted to follow in his footsteps. Despite the pleas from family members for him to finish college first, he insisted that he wanted to go enlisted. He couldn't wait to become Marine. We had never lost a family member to war. So when we received the news my immediate family dropped everything and rushed to their aide. Our hearts were broken...shattered, and wishing the void wasn't filled with so much pain.

I confess, I am a workaholic. Since the launch of our company my partner and I have been pounding the pavement to get everything up and running, day in and day out. Anyone who has ever had the experience of starting a company from the ground up understands the long hours, financial sacrifices and dedication one must have. Unfortunately for years, I have put my personal pursuit of a fulfilling career before my family. The last time I spoke to Raymon, he asked me if I would come visit him before he deployed. He would only be home for two weeks and he really wanted to see me. I simply told him I would try. As I type this (in tears) I wish I had tried harder. At the time I was working on a feature film, two haunted attractions, and had just started producing a motivational audio cd for one of our clients.  

When my aunt Gwen called asking if I wanted to go with her to see him off at Camp Lejeune I still refused to tear myself away from my work. Now there I was, sitting in my living room in disbelief that my little cousin had stepped on an IED during combat operations and was now dead. He was only twenty-two. He is seated to the far left in the photograph below. I miss him so much. We was such a fun person to be around.

In no way am I writing to say that I am in support of the war on terror; however, I am in support and grateful for the men and women who have served our country bravely. I finally understand the saying "freedom isn't free." Countries have been at war for centuries and millions of lives have been lost to grant freedom to so many who don't truly understand the sacrifice. So though you may not be in support of the war, please respect our US Armed Forces. When they pledge their allegiance to serve in the military, it is no longer a choice - it is their duty.  Soldiers put their lives on the line everyday. The following link will direct you to other fallen heroes

 Patriot Guards came to honor Raymon's life and show appreciation for
his service to our country. I had no idea such an organization even existed.
We couldn't thank them enough.  http://www.patriotguard.org/
I found this photo on the Internet and intentionally wanted
to share this specific image with you. If you have any compassion
in your heart, please be sure to say "thank you" to the men and
women who serve our country.  Her grief represents what we experienced. 

Some may consider this "unprofessional" to share on a company's website. However, this war affects each and every one of us. We are human. This war affects our livelihood, our businesses, the economy, and the families of the soldiers who are on the front lines serving this nation. My aunt and uncle lost their son, his siblings lost a brother, our country lost a heroe, and I gained a greater appreciation for spending time with those who matter most - family. Two days before my cousin's funeral, my mother was re-diagnosed with colon cancer after being in remission for over ten years. I have spent four months by her side along with my two sisters and mourning father. We almost lost her, but I am glad to say she is halfway through her chemotherapy treatments. My aunt Jean had a successful surgery, however the tumor returned for a third time and the doctors have told us that only time will tell her fate. 

Ramon (left) and Raymon (right) walking with  their niece.
This would be the last time she would see her uncle alive. 

In two weeks I will finally take the trip to Camp Lejeune to welcome home the troops from the 1st battalion, 8th Marine Regiment, 2nd Marine Regiment, I Marine Expeditionary Force. Though our tears will be full of sadness, we look forward to showing gratitude to those who will return home to their families.

Time is the one thing you can never get back. Please remember, business is important - but FAMILY it what truly matters.